{"id":850,"date":"2024-09-08T23:11:06","date_gmt":"2024-09-08T23:11:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newsc72.com\/?p=850"},"modified":"2024-09-08T23:11:06","modified_gmt":"2024-09-08T23:11:06","slug":"2-i-prohibited-my-husband-to-send-money-to-his-mom-now-she-says-i-ruined-her-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newsc72.com\/?p=850","title":{"rendered":"2 \/ I Prohibited My Husband to Send Money to His Mom, Now She Says I Ruined Her Life"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

FIL and SIL (husband\u2019s younger sister) came over for lunch. My FIL was helping us choose a bottle of wine when I asked him if everything was okay at home, he looked at me confused and asked what I was talking about. That\u2019s when my husband told him about her calling us for money.! It turns out that my MIL has been secretly asking my husband for money in cash. My FIL told us that she was withdrawing cash from the bank last year and told him it was to help pay for our wedding but she lied, she never gave us a dime.My FIL left immediately and hours later my MIL called crying saying that I had a big mouth and ruined her life.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

My FIL wrote us a check to pay us back and is temporarily separated from my MIL until he feels he can trust her again. My husband\u2019s maternal relatives are calling us and saying that I\u2019m the bad guy.People stood on her side. \u201cYou\u2019re not the one who has been lying and leeching for money. Hope your FIL divorces her.\u201d\u201dYou asked out of concern, and you brought what sounds like tens of thousands of dollars in spending to his attention that she had been hiding, for whatever reasons. If she needed the money for a good reason, she wouldn\u2019t have been lying about it.\u201d\u201dYou busted a gold-digging scammer, out of concern and love for your husband and his father. It\u2019s natural to feel guilty for upsetting someone, and for big life changes to happen to others. But sometimes it\u2019s necessary to upset someone and change circumstances.\u201d\u201dThe maternal relatives that are calling you a bad guy were probably the ones benefiting from the money.\u201d\u201dIf anyone ruined your mother-in-law\u2019s life, it was herself.\u201d\u201dYou\u2019re not a bank, neither is your husband, MIL has misused the trust of her son and husband. Seems like she wants to have power over her son and uses the money method to know that.\u201dAs the story unfolds, it becomes clear that such decisions, while often painful, are necessary for the health and stability of the marriage. Ultimately, the narrative underscores the importance of communication, mutual understanding, and the need for clear boundaries in maintaining both familial relationships and marital bonds.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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