{"id":296,"date":"2024-08-20T21:51:57","date_gmt":"2024-08-20T21:51:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newsc72.com\/?p=296"},"modified":"2024-08-20T21:51:57","modified_gmt":"2024-08-20T21:51:57","slug":"2-my-husband-wants-to-leave-as-he-doesnt-get-my-attention-after-i-gave-birth-to-twins","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newsc72.com\/?p=296","title":{"rendered":"2 \/ My Husband Wants to Leave as He Doesn\u2019t Get My Attention After I Gave Birth to Twins"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\"><strong>barely getting a few hours of sleep each night. Matt has been helping, but he also has to work long hours to support us, so most of the childcare falls on me. I know I\u2019ve been distant, and I feel guilty about it, but I just don\u2019t have the energy for anything else. I haven\u2019t had a moment to myself in months, and our relationship has suffered because of it.\u201d \u201cMatt came to me last night and said he\u2019s thinking about leaving. He told me he feels neglected, like I don\u2019t care about him anymore.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\"><strong>He said he misses the way things used to be, just the two of us, and that he doesn\u2019t feel like a priority in my life now. Hearing those words broke my heart, because the truth is, I miss us too. But I don\u2019t know how to balance being a good mother and a good wife when I feel like I\u2019m barely holding on.\u201dEmma then shared, \u201cI tried to explain to Matt that this is just a phase, that the boys won\u2019t be this demanding forever, and that we\u2019ll find our way back to each other. But he just looked so defeated, like he\u2019s already made up his mind. I don\u2019t want to lose him, but I also don\u2019t know how to fix this. How do I show him that I still love him when I\u2019m too exhausted to even think straight?\u201d \u201cNow, I\u2019m sitting here, staring at my sleeping babies, wondering how I can possibly choose between my husband and my children. I don\u2019t want to lose my marriage, but I don\u2019t want to fail as a mother either. What should I do?\u201d We appreciate your bravery in sharing your story with us, so we\u2019ve put together a few tips to help. Navigating the challenges of motherhood while maintaining a strong relationship can feel overwhelming, especially with the added pressures of raising twins. Here are some pieces of advice that could guide Emma in finding balance and reconnecting with her husband.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>barely getting a few hours of sleep each night. Matt has been helping, but he also has to work long hours to support us, so most of the childcare falls&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-296","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"views":642,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsc72.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/296","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsc72.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsc72.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsc72.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsc72.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=296"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/newsc72.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/296\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":297,"href":"https:\/\/newsc72.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/296\/revisions\/297"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsc72.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=296"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsc72.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=296"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsc72.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=296"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}